Tak Kenal Maka Tak Suka, Tak Suka Maka Tak Sayang.

Let me introduce my self yaa :) 

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Here some facts about me.

1. I was born with this name ---> Alifa Rizkia Leman . But you can call me "Mpa" like all of my 

    mates do. A for Andi (Ayah), Li for Linda (Bunda), Fa for Family.

2. I was born on July 11th 1996. I am that full cancerian (Katanya sih bintang paling mager sejagat 

    raya :( HAHAHA BUT IT'S DAMN TRUE)

3. *CUDDLING* *CUDDLING* *CUDDLING* I really love cuddling! all day long all night long.

4. ((kata orang-orang sih)) Lovable. I still loving while hating someone, duh ini paling susah. once

    loving will always loving, thats why  gue jd keliatan bgitu stupid :") 

5. ((kata orang lagi)) Jutek. Buat satu matter ini sedih parah :'( apa daya mukanya kaya gini? 

    Sometimes suka belajar senyum2 sendiri gitu depan kaca, but it becomes creepy everyday, jadi 

    pasrahkan saja kepada Allah yang maha esa :")

6. I am smart ((sombong dikit))................................................................................................................

   until i fell in love. Sayangnya sekarang i fall in love in everysecond of my life.

7.The moodiest person inside the galaxy. My mood swing every minute HAHAHA

8. Da akuma hobi pundung, iya. 

9. Suka banget sama orang Bandung/ Kalimantan. I love how they speak, alus ya ampunnn mau satu        jdnya #LOH

10. I really mentingin Gender's rights. Cewe Cowo masing2 deh jangan suka aneh2 sikapnya ketuker,       yang ini sungguh ku junjung tinggi.

11. Gengsi Gengsi Gengsi, iya. 

12. Smart Guy is everything. Kalo disuruh pilih cowo ganteng tp biasa aja sm cowo a-little-bit cupu 

      tp smart, ku bakal pilih the smart one!! Sexy banget liat cowo cerdas ituuu DUH.

13. Beatles, Maroon 5, John Mayer, Maliq n d'essential, Tulus, yaa bisa diliat ya genre musiknya....

14. Family woman banget. I can live one full week at home, asal keluarga kumpul semua..........

     Kalo  ntar nikah berarti bagus ya ga banyak mau pergi2 gausah khawatir yang jadi suami gue. Mas      aku di rumah aja sama kamu betah kok #LOH 

15. The most planner girl. Gue butuh banyak buku buat banyak plan. mau beresin kamar aja harus di 

      rencanain & di tulis di dalem buku. Selama sekolah di andelin temen2 untuk managing activity 

      nih HEHE :") jd kangen..

16. Dapet darah perfeksionis nih dari bapake.... but, ga di semua urusan sih. Contoh kecilnya sih 

      gini, gue prefer ngerjain satu tugas sendirian walaupun berat banget ketimbang di tolongin orang, 

     COZ.... i have my own standart buat beberapa urusan, and it's sad that i can't easily satisfy with 

     another. :") 

17. The most territori woman in the world. Territori ya, bukan jealous. :)

18. I love jail jail terutama ke orang2 yang di sayang HEHE

19. The Super-Gabisa-Diem Girl. Rekor rusuh bertahan sampe 3 tahun di kelas semasa SMA 

20. PlayGroup Al-Muhajirin Komp.Krakatau Steel, TKIT Raudhatul Jannah PCI, SDIT Raudhatul 

     Jannah PCI, SMPIT Raudhatul Jannah PCI-Tsnawiyah Darunnajah Islamic Boarding School 

     Jaksel, SMAS Darunnajah Islamic Boarding School Jaksel, and now just entering the College, 

     Industrial Engineering Universitas Sultan Ageng Tirtayasa.

21.My life is shooooooo fucking unpredictable!!! okay let me share dikit yaaa :* idup gue out of 

    plans banget. Jaman SD udah planning (yes dr kecil planner bgt) mau SMP di RJ juga bareng 

    temen2 lalu SMA mau coba di SMA 3 Bandung *ikut ayah*, terus kuliah pasti ITB dong *dulu 

    mikirnya cuma mau ITB (ayah), Unpad (bunda), UI (where success people go)* tapiii yang tadi 

    gue bilang, segalanya surprise. Di tahun pertama gue di SMPIT RJ, gue pindah ke jakarta, ke 

    Darunnajah aaaaaaandddddd sampe lulus SMA disana jadi plan gue di SMA 3 bandung, pupus. 

    TERUSSSSS kuliah awalnya mau banget jadiin di ITB, BUT, ayah & bunda gabolehin ngekos            akibat udah 6 tahun ldr cilegon-jakarta walhasil harus cari kuliah di cilegon, jadi? plan gue kuliah        ITB pupus juga. HEM kira2 unpredictable moment apalagi yaaa abis ini? Lets Wait!! :)

22. Baper Baper Baper all my life HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

23. Gabisa banget di bentak, bukan nangis kalo di bentak. Tapi jadi ganas WKWK

24. Otak itu segalanya, makanya suka banget sama cowo yang solving problem pake otak bukan otot #LOH

25. Pingin nikah muda, honestly :( 

26. Padang Padang Padang. I hate when people say "padang pelit". Soalnya gue ga ngerasa tuh 

     WKWK Bangga punya darah padang, soalnya otaknya jalan banget kalo soal bussiness 

     #PadangSukses

27. Susah Move on, iya. 

28. Sudah move on, belum. 

29. EAT EAT EAT paling gabisa diet :( 

30. Anarkis ((anarkis))

31. Movie Freak. i can waste a whole week watching movies *turunan ayah*

32. Belajar mobil dari SMP kelas 2 tapi sampe kuliah juga masih tegang bawa mobil HEM:( 

33. Suka banget sama anak kecil nih, apalagi cowo yang suka anak kecil #LOH

34. I really dont like the crowd, gasuka banget. i prefer the silence. 

35. Anti mainstream. paling gasuka make barang yang di pake sm orang lain juga, ini parah gasukanya. 

36.Casan hape ga pernah awet

37. Ceroboh 

38. Panikkan parah, harus punya cowo yang bisa redam paniknya nih #LOH #KODETERUS #HINGGAMATI 

39. The very flat shoes girl. gasuka pake yang tinggi2 soalnya ga tahan :( wkwk 

40. Ga-Cewe-Banget.

41. Punya alergi parah, alergi ga punya duit. HAHAHA:( ga deng alergi sama debu ((dan ini parah)) 

42. I really love sweet foods!! sayangnya i have the diabetic blood :( 

43. Hug-able, and kissable. 

44. I love writing <3 <3 

45. Gabisa baca jam pusing pusing wkwk

46. I prefer solve the math than disuruh bedain kanan kiri :( 

47. Cartoon! Romance!

48. Comic! Novel! 

49. Not an introvert nor extrovert

50. Kali ini cape ngetik HEMMMMM :") 

ARL, 4 Juli 2015.

Kemari Sayang

Mengapa kamu terlihat lelah? 

Sini bersamaku.

Singkirkan kasur itu

Kemari sayang, dengan diriku.

Ceritakan padaku, sayang

Harimu pun bebanmu 

Agar tak terlihat selelah itu 

Mari berbagi bersamaku 

Jangan bawa bantal itu, sayang

Mari bersandarkan satu sama lain

Agar kau tahu bagaimana aku cinta

Agar kau tahu bagaimana aku ada

Ceritakan padaku, sayang 

Rasamu pun inginmu 

Agar aku tahu isi hatimu 

Agar aku tahu apa gunanya aku

Jangan terlalu lelah sendiri, sayang

Karna aku disini untuk berguna

Bebankan sedikit kepadaku, sayang 

Agar kau tak terlihat selelah itu.

ARL, 4 Juli 2015.

People nowadays mainstreamly talk about #LOVEWINS , so here i wanna talk about it based on my opinion, maybe will be delete soon guyz!! :) 

First let me tell you something,  i am now not talking based on my religion. But everyone have the rights to agree or disagree with the matter. 
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Okay, let me start now.. 
I feel sorry for how US ruling this matter. We all have to know that Marriage isn't just about "love" so we can make the same gender marriage become legal. 

The Marriage's Statements 

-Marriage is about how we create the next generation to follow up the world, 
-Marriage also is about how we share our rights and obligation with someone new, all the rest of life
-Marriage is about how we commit with the positive & negative habit of someone(re. husband/wife)

Now, let me explain my opinion based on this three statements of Marriage.

I completely disagree with the #LOVEWINS, based on the first statement of marriage, because...
If the same gender marriage become legal, the couples will not produce the next generation for handling the next era of the world. They just follow they lust without knowing that they may make some bad impact from their decision which is "same gender marriage". If you say "its just a small population in the world which have this abnormality lust", let me guide you to know, if  this small population's lust become legal, they will show the world who are they, bravely, can you imagine if this small population become a trendsetter of the world? Can u imagine if this small population affect the whole world and the whole world follow them? what a wonderful world's future, LOL. Theres no next generation handle the world then :") Remember, One Million come from One. The decision to keep this matter illegal is the best way to decrease this population. Or minimalize the development of this population. Because when the country keep it illegal, the population can't show it clearly, moreover, they can't be a trendsetter for people around them, at least they just make many bad affects for themselves. 

I completely disagree with the #LOVEWINS, based on the first statement of marriage, because...
I feel suspicious that people nowadays becoming forget the differences between a MAN and a WOMAN. Theres a huge differences between them, exactly. Marriage is about share the rights and the obligation with our life partner. How can be person share their rights and their obligation to the person with the same rights and same obligation too? okay, lets make it easier. Just like a magnet, the A side  can't be unite with the B side, and vice versa. Everything is created to complete each other. How the same-gender-marriage couple complete each other if they have same rights and same obligation which is, they're both man, or they're both woman. They make it so complicated. The decision to keep this matter illegal can make this things become a pressure for this population and sometime it can make them try to not follow up their abnormal lust (because the presssure)

 I completely disagree with the #LOVEWINS, based on the first statement of marriage, because...
Marriage is about complete each other, and try to accept the positive and also the negative one. Why we say "complete each other" ? Because, Man and Woman created by different structure, different way to think, different way to take care something, different way to see something, different way to solve something, and also different way to feel. How the same-gender-marriage couple complete each other if they have all of that same basic ways to survive in life. How to complete their way to think, or their way to take care of something? Or excectra. There will be an unbalance life between them, there will be some problem can't fix because they're same. There will be a complicated life for this population i think. 



All that my opinion about that, no offense, i just wanna share my point of view, because once more..
"Everybody have their own rights to express something" :) 

Enjoy your day :)  



ARL, 3 Juli 2015.

..Darinya Tentang Doa..

Darinya belajar mempercayai doa

Bahwa segalanya dapat saja ada

Pun cinta. 

Darinya, belajar doa iringi cinta

Ia tak merasa sia sia meneteskan air mata

Kepada orang yang di cinta bagai memuja

Menahan hati tak akan mendua 

Walau benar menjadi salah akibat cinta 

Tak sedikitpun berfikir menjadi yang paling

Yang ia harap hanyalah saling

Hatinya serapuh serentan piring

Yang mudah sekali pecah berkeping keping

Darinya belajar bagaimana mencinta bersama doa

Bahwa segalanya dapat saja ada

Pun luka.

Darinya, belajar doa sembuhkan luka

ARL, 3 Juli 2015

Ternyata Tak Abadi 

Pasir kasar di setiap jemari kaki

Menari nari menggelitik

Ku nikmati desau ombak

Di pantai ini, pantai hati 

Ku ingat kau genggam jemari

Menari nari mengikuti keinginan hati

Hanya kau, aku dan hati 

Hanya gerakan kaki dan tautan jemari

Tetapi tak ada abadi 

Pun cerahnya matahari 

Ternyata tak abadi 

Pun kuatnya rasa di hati 

ARL, 1 Juli 2015.