My "Teman Hidup" type.

So, connect with my broken heart story, many friends finally asked me if my ex was my type for "Teman Hidup" so i couldn't move on easily?

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Here i am now finally sharing about my "Teman Hidup" type. I'll mention it directly with a number incase you wanna know which one is the most important.

1.Believe the power of Doa.

Why i put it first? Because i have to feeling so sure that if i have to die first, someone will always send a prayer for me, LOL.

No, not like that. Because i believe in god, and i believe the power of Doa. I need "Teman Hidup" who believes what i believe, so he can always reminds me if i lost my faith, and vice versa. I need to be sure that my life will never being so far from doa, and from god exactly. Because i'm so sure that everything i do, will never going success without doa.

2.Future Minded Guy.

I mean, at least the guy who knows what he going to do after graduate. I have no interest with "Liat nanti aja" guy, for example, if i ask him, "what are you going to be? / to do after graduate from this college?" he reply, "I dont know, liat nanti aja" ugh :( i really dont like this type of guy. Future minded doesn't mean too much expectation, i want a guy who knows what he going to do/ to be after graduate and shows me his effort to reach it. :)

3.Honest.

I need a guy who will gonna share his whole life, e-ve-ry-thing with me. Theres no lie, theres no walls, theres nothing covered from me.

Because for me, married is when two people, two lifes, two hearts, to souls, becoming one. Theres no reason to be lie for, if someone truly loves his/her life partner.

4.Royal.

I am not that materialistic type of girl, but i will always put "royal" to important things when talk about "teman hidup" type.

Because can you imagine to live the rest of your life with a guy who will always counting how much he waste his wealth to defray your life? It will so suck yea? So what i mean with Royal is, he enjoy his life with me, work together, collect the wealth together, and waste it together without one of us has the uncomfy feeling about the wealth.

5.Patience.

Why the patience "Teman Hidup" is important to me?

Because i am the drama queen that get angry and cry so fucking easily. The most unimportant things can bothering my day so much. And my mood is swing everysecond of my life, OMG. I can be so nice in this second and become so unfriendly for the next second, like that.

So i need the most patience "Teman Hidup" to handle my bad habit, and if i can ask for more, i need someone not just patience to handle it, but also have a ton extra of patience to helps me change this bad habit of mine. :)

I think 5 is too much to type right? HEHE, my hand is so fucking tired.

BUT ABOVE ALL, THE MOST IMPORTANT THING ABOUT MY TYPE FOR "TEMAN HIDUP" IS ; HE LOVES ME LIKE HE LOVES HIMSELF, SO THAT HE NOT GONNA LEAVE ME, NO MATTER HARD THE SITUATION, UNTIL THE DEATH TEAR US APART.

-ARL, 10 Januari 2016